Anybody else feel they're the kiss of death to a thread?

Posted by: TomK on 01 October 2004

It seems to me that a few lively threads have ended with my contribution. Anybody else feel this way? (He says expecting no answer).

I confess I'm paranoid because the same thing used to happen as a teenager when I hung about in a crowd including the gorgeous girl who's now my wife and my contribution to the conversation would result in "Is that right?" followed by silence. Next topic please.
Posted on: 01 October 2004 by Deane F
You're just a deep thinker TomK. You take each enquiry seriously and, like Socrates, plumb the depths of the complexities hidden within the topic because you just can't take it that something doesn't quite (just doesn't quite) make sense. Cool

Or else you are a slow thinker, dragging behind the crowd, until it suddenly occurs "Oh yeah". But everybody has moved on. Confused

Or else you are paranoid, thinking that the other forum contributors are the "in" group and you form the "out" group. Wink

But I do know what you mean. I've seen the same thing happen to a few of my postings as they gradually drop down the page with my name in the "last post" section. I'm just uncool.

I'm sure that you've lured me into a trap here. This will be the last posting on this topic, I'm sure.

Dare to reply, TomK?

Deane
Posted on: 01 October 2004 by Steve Toy
It is perhaps better to have the last word on a given thread than for the thread to continue without your particular query being answered.

Internet forums don't really reflect real life because you don't always know who is reading at any given time.

In real life you can always see who may be listening to what you have to say.

I often seem to be the last person to post on a given thread, but rarely do I start a thread that goes unanswered.

quote:
I confess I'm paranoid because the same thing used to happen as a teenager when I hung about in a crowd including the gorgeous girl who's now my wife and my contribution to the conversation would result in "Is that right?" followed by silence. Next topic please.


THe fact that the gorgeous girl is now your wife explains all - and kinda proves my point about having the last word...

Regards,

Steve.
Posted on: 01 October 2004 by Steve Toy
Dean F,

FWIW, you are new around here but I find myself enjoying reading your posts.



Regards,

Steve.
Posted on: 01 October 2004 by bhazen
I'll often bring a thread to a complete halt by pontificating about History, Literature, my childhood in India or something; I don't take it too personally, I just take the hint that I (and I'm only talking about myself here) can be a pompous, boring git. See, for example, how the "Bose is in on the game" thread just sort of avoided my post.

Hey, did I tell you about what Kipling said about politicians at parties <snore>.....
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by David Stewart
Tom,
By acting to kill-off some of the threads on here (and in other places!) I believe one is providing an important social service. Many of them go on for far too long, eventually meandering so far off-topic that they become largely irrelevant.

Others degenerate into tedious pissing contests between arrogant pompous know-alls who cannot accept that views other than their own might have any validity. I say keep up the good work - the forum needs people like you Wink
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Deane F
quote:
Originally posted by David Stewart:
... Many of them go on for far too long, eventually meandering so far off-topic that they become largely irrelevant.


David is right. Somebody should start a conversation thread.

"Irony" would be an excellent topic.

TomK could have the last word.

Deane
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by 7V
quote:
Originally posted by Deane F:
David is right. Somebody should start a conversation thread.

"Irony" would be an excellent topic.

_TomK_ could have the last word.

Let's see whose contribution ends this thread.

Hmmm, if we had a prize for the final poster this could go on forever. Roll Eyes

Steve
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by JonR
'Anybody else feel they're the kiss of death to a thread?'

Yup.

Certainly in the early days of my Forum membership it felt like that.

But like Steven Toy says this is a bulletin board where you don't know who's online reading your postings at any given time, so I resist making it mean anything.

Perhaps I will yet claim the prize here though Wink

jon
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by JonR
Yep, honest guv.
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by 7V
Well, I haven't given up hope yet.
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Geoff P
Frown

The boring old fart
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Spock
The end?

Spock
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by long-time-dead
.............and the irony is that nobody should have replied to the original posting.
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by ejl
I think it's right that there are indeed times when you've got to just say "Enough, everything's been said, there's no need for this to go on".

I guess that's sort of what many of you have been saying. I think that Tom's quotation from Adam expressed this point nicely.

By the way, if Tom's post had been the last, would Tom received credit for killing the thread, or would Adam?

Comments anyone?
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by BigH47
If one of Fritz's post is on a screen and nobody is there to read it ...does it make sense?
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by long-time-dead
.......... and this thread is resurrected as something completely different......
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Adam Meredith
Is Kill Bill the worst film ever - whoops, I'll get my coat.
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by long-time-dead
And here was me thinking that Adam's reply would have been :

"Me - we need to preserve the bandwidth. Thread locked"

Big Grin
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Geoff P
Part 1 or Part 2?

The boring old fart
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by bhazen
Er...Kipling, anyone?
Posted on: 02 October 2004 by Berlin Fritz
Everytime I write on this Fowum, innit.
Posted on: 03 October 2004 by BigH47
quote:
Er...Kipling, anyone?


No cakes at this time of the morning.
Posted on: 03 October 2004 by oldie
Is "KIPLING" a very small kipper??
oldie.
Posted on: 03 October 2004 by Spock
Oldie
quote:
Is "KIPLING" a very small kipper??


A fine attempt to put the kiss of death on this thread. However, I was dumb enough to post a reply.

Bacon & Eggs for me

Spock
Posted on: 03 October 2004 by 7V
quote:
Originally posted by Spock:
Oldie
quote:
Is "KIPLING" a very small kipper??


A fine attempt to put the kiss of death on this thread. However, I was dumb enough to post a reply.

Bacon & Eggs for me


I feel duty bound to report that my favourite breakfast is US style bacon (crispy), eggs (over-easy) and hash browns (sadly without hash). Delicious.

Has anyone seen the new Honda diesel engine advert? If not, it looks like this must be the end of this thread. Smile

Steve