The Mel Gibson Tapes

Posted by: James L on 14 July 2010

Who has heard the tapes?

OK, sounds like she set him up to spew his guts on tape but is he insane?
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by TomK
Why apologise? You were asked a question and your answer was interesting. I often think it would be useful to know more about board members. It's too easy for anonymous posters often hiding behind silly names to start arguing with complete strangers about things that don't matter one bit in the real world. And I've been there Red Face
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by Dungassin
OK. I'll retract my apology. Smile

Incidentally, just noticed an error. I was 32 when I was appointed Consultant.

Also, to Mongo : Only Surgeons are called Mister (or Miss). It's a hangover from the days when it was Barber Surgeons, and they weren't considered good enough to be admitted to the Royal College of Physicians. Smile

Almost everywhere else in the world surgeons are referred to as Doctor, and I found that American tourists in particular often found it confusing when admitted to British Hospitals where I was working.

If you wish to be pedantic, in academic terms I shouldn't really call myself doctor, as I don't have a Doctorate (PhD or MD). My youngest is a PhD and takes great delight in pointing this out to me. I am, as you might expect, FRCA (Fellow of the Royal College of Anaesthetists)

All a bit of anomaly, as most other countries have MD as their basic medical qualification, whereas my degree is MB ChB. In the UK an MD is a postgraduate qualification equivalent to PhD.

All very confusing, but I thought you might be interested. Smile
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by BigH47
Aren't consultants called "Mr"?
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by Dungassin
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Aren't consultants called "Mr"?

Only Surgeons (which includes Gynaecologists), and only in the UK. All other Consultants are "Doctor"
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by Rockingdoc
and General Practitioners in the part of London that I work are formally addressed as "Oi mate!".
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by BigH47
Big Grin
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by Dungassin
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and General Practitioners in the part of London that I work are formally addressed as "Oi mate!".

I spent my career from Registrar onwards being addressed by all the theatre staff as "Doc Martin" Big Grin
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by BigH47
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I spent my career from Registrar onwards being addressed by all the theatre staff as "Doc Martin"


I suppose there is always someone willing to put the boot in?

Sorry Smile
Posted on: 16 July 2010 by Dungassin
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I suppose there is always someone willing to put the boot in?

Sorry

Big Grin
Posted on: 17 July 2010 by Dungassin
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The last one looked just like Ben Elton.
I hoped he wasnt Ben Elton when he was putting Cortisone enjections into my back.

Can't be me. I'm best described as "that short fat bloke with the white hair". Of course, when I married, it was that "that short skinny bloke with the red hair" Winker
Posted on: 19 July 2010 by Rockingdoc
I think the original post does warrant a look at the frequent disasters resulting from successful middle-aged men getting involved with younger women.
A close friend of mine (who I hope doesn't look at this forum) is an internationally successful scientist, and has recently got involved with a young woman the same age as his daughter. My intitial reservations were not well received, but now he is faced with major, unwanted, life-changes (e.g. moving jobs, countries etc.) in increasingly desperate attempts to keep her happy.
It is sad to watch from the sidelines, and good-looking as she is, NO I am not envious.
Posted on: 19 July 2010 by Dungassin
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have seen a few friends go that way over the last few years.
All hell breaks out and it becomes a living nightmare for family and friends.

One of the distressing aspects for the onlookers, is that they are often friends to both original partners, and it's amazing how much pressure you get to "take sides". Very difficult to stay friends with both.
Posted on: 19 July 2010 by TomK
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Originally posted by munch:
Doc,
I have seen a few friends go that way over the last few years.
All hell breaks out and it becomes a living nightmare for family and friends.
Stu


Stu,
Don't really see how age makes much difference. If it's not mutual it's going to cause all sorts of heartache for the dumped partner, and the kids are going to be traumatised regardless.
Posted on: 20 July 2010 by Andy S
Stu,

That's a very blinkered opinion. I left my ex wife after 20 years as I couldn't stand the thought of living with her for the rest of my life. My ex wife believes it was my current partner who "broke up" our marriage. Nothing could be further from the truth. I was looking for a way out before I met my current partner - I wasn't happy and I was not going to be there much longer whichever way it had gone.

It wasn't an amicable split - in fact, I've been on the end of a Mel Gibson style rant on more than one occasion...
Posted on: 20 July 2010 by Mike Dudley
I daresay "Gibbo's" behaviour has a lot to do with mid-life problems.

Also, of course, the man's a complete crackpot...