What Could We Never Part With.
Posted by: u5227470736789439 on 10 July 2006
Dear Friends,
Rambling round the Music Room a minute ago, I saw reference made to things we would never part with, and it struck me that that there are indeed things I never will part with, with the possible exception of giving them to a home where they would be as much cherished as by me.
To kick this off, I will say that my Library of Recordings could never go - at least as whole. There is always a case for removing a few every now and then, and I am ruthless in this respect, but the whole is then left refined!
Secondly there are two parts of my gramophone which could never go, because one was the gift of my late Norwegian grandmother, who instructed me to get something I otherwise never would - CDS2 - and told me to accept it from her 'warm hand!' she died three weeks later. Well it can never be allowed to fall out of service can it?! And I sold my beautiful five string bass when my playing had finished, and that financed my 52. That is a memorial to two thing: My playing and how hard I worked for about four years to actually pay for the instrument in the first place.
Apart from a trunk full of every letter and card, I receievd in my life, and a suitcase containing every photo I have taken or been given cover now forty five years, there is nothing I have any attachement to at all. The lot can go tomorrow, and when I say the lot, £200 at a car-boot sale would replace it, apart from the non-sentimentally connected gramophone pieces. I no longer even own a wriste watch or a television for example.
All the best from Fredrik.
PS: Frieghting the lot for my emigration will not take much doing!
Posted on: 10 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
My goodness! I just realised the one thing it would break my heart to part with. My friends! Yes, they will all go in time, or I will before some of them, but to loose them would be impossible to countenance at least before the event...
Fredrik
Posted on: 10 July 2006 by kuma
Fredrik,
It is much more difficult to replace my close friends who care about me than any materialistic things.
Posted on: 10 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
Dear Kuma,
In my experience, the gift of a new friendship gets less and less frequent, though more rewarding, with time. Maybe this thread is wrongly styled? Perhaps I should have called it, what in life is nearly as important to us as our friends? !!!!
Life has its funny and lovely moments, and these always seem to be because of our friends, actually.
All the best from Fredrik
Posted on: 10 July 2006 by joe90
Wife and my son and daughter.
All the stuff I own could burn for all I care.
Posted on: 10 July 2006 by Steve G
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Originally posted by joe90:
Wife and my son and daughter.
All the stuff I own could burn for all I care.
Agreed, however after my family this is what I'd save next from a burning house:
My Cotic Soul and Specialized Epic mountain bikes
My LP12
My camera bags
All of those could be replaced however some of the camera equipment would be tricky to locate replacements for and a replacement for my Cotic would take some effort to source and build.
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Chillkram
Dear Fredrik,
You cheeky man! You beat Erik and me to it!
As I was saying on the thread you mention over in the music room my LP12 means the world to me as I remember clearly the day in 1982 that I went with my dad to audition it at Subjective Audio in Camden.
We listened to it through a Meridian 101B and a pair of M10 active speakers and the pure shock of what we were hearing just bowled us over.
My dad bought the LP12 and he passed it on to me a couple of years ago as he had no space anymore for it and it had been dormant for a few years. I have recently had it serviced and it sounds wonderful, although the valhalla power supply is on the way out.
I would never part with it and intend just to upgrade it slowly over the years. Although eventually nothing might be left of the original, it will still be the same player to me. I suppose that just shows that it is not the thing of itself that prompts the attachment, but rather the associations....with people, places, events etc.
I would also keep my Ibanez Musician guitar and my Fender Super 60 amp that I have had since I was a kid although I don't really play any more (I was never really that good, anyway).
Other than that I have a copy of the bible that belonged to my dear grandfather, a book of poetry given to me by my uncle in the year before he died and a few photographs of my grandparents.
My wife and kids I would sell in a heartbeat in order to fund an upgrade to my system!
Mark
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Huwge
The prayer book given to my gradfather before he went off in 1916 to serve on the Somme.
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Mike1380
Without doubt I couldn't bear to lose the wonderful lady with whom I share my life, but this thread also nods to material things, of which there are but two which I could not bear to be parted with.
One is a photo album.
During the first 8 years of my life my father was specialising in F1 photography for his living, so many weekends in the summer were devoid of his presence.
To compensate he would go through his work every week, and select a few of his favourite shots.
He'd then hand print them, and at the following race meet he'd track down the relevant drivers and get the shots autographed, specifically dedicated to myself.
This runs to well over 100 photos, many of the legends within are long passed.
This is the most treausured gift I have ever received.
The most treasured possession that I have worked, earnt, and paid for is my classic Mini Cooper.
I yearned to own one of these from the age of 4, having seen the Italian Job, and vowed that some day I would.
Built my way up through various non-coopers, until finally owning the genuine article.
I've spent many happy hours both driving and working on it, and the odd one or two swearing violently at it too
It owes me a few square feet of replacement knuckle-skin, and more than thrice it's real-world value, but as long as I am able to drive then I shall not part with it.
A sentiment oft echoed by the lady of the house, I'm pleased to say.
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by MontyW
I could never part with my wife and two amazing sons AND my best friends (especially the short sighted one who asks me to post on here on his behalf - yes you know who you are:-) ) - all are priceless.
I also have a gold Omega watch that my grandfather gave me when he finished goodness knows how many years working in a cotton mill. The rest can all go tomorrow!
Sentimental buggers aren't we.
Dave
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Milo Tweenie
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Originally posted by Fredrik_Fiske:
I no longer even own a wriste watch ...
Ah, that explains all your 01:00 am postings on here
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Jono 13
After the family the following in no particular order:
Photo of my granfather in Blues and Royals band from 1930's
Wooden bear, last present from my father before he died
Wife's parents wedding photos
Photos and backups of digital photos
Music collection
All the rest can be replaced.
Jono
Posted on: 11 July 2006 by Chris Kelly
Hmmm. I sort of did this for real when I separated from my wife of 32 years late last year. The first items packed (it took a while) were my Cds, next came all my camera stuff and after that there really wasn't much that I truly wanted. It's just stuff and gathers silently around one like dust onto my Fraim!
My two sons have been incredibly supportive and I wouldn't part with them for anything.
Posted on: 12 July 2006 by joe90
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I sort of did this for real when I separated from my wife of 32 years late last year
Respectfully, do you regret it?
Posted on: 12 July 2006 by Chris Kelly
Separating or being married for 32 years Joe? I don't regret either in fact. We married very young and simply grew in different directions. I am infinitely happier in my current state than I was for a lot of years before. And ironically, we are getting on better than we did when cohabiting.
Je ne regret rien
Posted on: 12 July 2006 by Rockingdoc
A good friend's house burnt down recently (thatched roof), and the only thing she misses are the photos.
Posted on: 13 July 2006 by joe90
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And ironically, we are getting on better than we did when cohabiting.
That's good - I am glad.
Posted on: 14 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
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Originally posted by Milo Tweenie:
quote:
Originally posted by Fredrik_Fiske:
I no longer even own a wrist watch ...
Ah, that explains all your 01:00 am postings on here
Dear Milo,
Not really! If I won the lottery I would revert to my natural tendency to go to bed at tenish, and rise at six in the morning. If I am not careful that can happen in any case, even with a shift start at 2 pm. Not good if it happens twice in a week.
I would quite like one of those old Hunter watches that chime the quarters, actually, but keeping one running nowadays would be a problem...
Fredrik
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by Mick P
Fredrik
Pocket watches, even top notch ones, have taken a dive in value because no one ever uses them.
They are easy to maintain, so if you fancy one, buy one.
Regards
Mick
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by Milo Tweenie
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Originally posted by Fredrik_Fiske:
quote:
Originally posted by Milo Tweenie:
quote:
Originally posted by Fredrik_Fiske:
I no longer even own a wrist watch ...
Ah, that explains all your 01:00 am postings on here
Dear Milo,
Not really! If I won the lottery I would revert to my natural tendency to go to bed at tenish, and rise at six in the morning. If I am not careful that can happen in any case, even with a shift start at 2 pm. Not good if it happens twice in a week.
I would quite like one of those old Hunter watches that chime the quarters, actually, but keeping one running nowadays would be a problem...
Fredrik
Dear Fredrik
If I'd realised your nocturnal postings were forced by circumstances rather than by choice, I wouldn't have poked fun.
All the best, Chris
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
Dear Chris,
Don't worry. Worse thnings happen! I am definately not even vaguely offended!!!
What is funny is that if I go out for a session I go to sleep long before I want to, which probably indicates my natural sleeping time. But if I start early I can can get most I know right under the table!
I only work those hours as it is worth 20% on my basic wages. I could not actually pay the daily bills otherwise!
All the best from Fredrik
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
well I don't have to use my imagination to see what it would look like without any CDs in my place anymore!
Fredrik
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by Chillkram
Ah, but would it sound any better, Fredrik?
Mark
Posted on: 15 July 2006 by u5227470736789439
I am glad it is only imaginary! If I dreamt it, it would be a dream to awake from pronto! But I shall try to arrange the new place with enough shelves that something of the look happens for special occasions at least.
I have had a lovely lazy day as only you can after a short break!
Good night all, from Fred
Posted on: 17 July 2006 by JoeH
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Originally posted by joe90:
Wife and my son and daughter.
All the stuff I own could burn for all I care.
Ditto, except in my case it's a wife and two daughters. I'd also be unhappy to move away from my present house, because we've invested so much money, time and effort into it, and there's about a dozon or so books I'd be reluctant to part with.
Other than that there's nothing material I'm that attached to. When I was a penniless student I had to sell almost everything I owned (I couldn't get an overdraft and credit cards hadn't been invented) and could do the same tomorrow with no real regrets. Indeed, a good clear-out would probably do a lot of good in pyschological terms.