Music for babies

Posted by: BLT on 05 August 2003

As a new baby is due to arrive in our house in mid October, does anyone have reccommendations for music that will calm the wee beastie? I have read that it is a good idea to play music to the foetus and then play the same music again when you want your baby to calm down.
Posted on: 05 August 2003 by Dobbin
We found gentle classical music worked quite well. However babies are very interested in music (and pretty much anything else as it turns out!) so don't limit him/her would be my advice. Our 8 month old has been going to a music group for some time now based upon the Colourstrings approach to teaching children music. http://www.colourstrings.co.uk/ crap web site but just have a google or whatever. There are cd's complementary to the classes which are full of good music for children (young kids singing/classical instrumental versions of the songs etc). It may sound a bit ponsey to start teaching a young baby music but ours loves it.

Anyway he now listens to loads of stuff - seems to be going through a Rolling Stones phase at the moment!
Posted on: 05 August 2003 by Andrew L. Weekes
I think any music is a good thing.

My son, now 4, knows almost the entire lyrics to some songs I play regularly and from an early age would stop and look to the system if he heard certain songs, often ones we had on in the house before he was born. I often wonder if the constant musical exposure had anything to do with it, but it's great fun to sing along together.

He holds a tune better than me though Smile

A little bit of everything I reckon - you'll still get sleepless nights irrespective, unless you're one of the lucky ones Wink

Andy.
Posted on: 05 August 2003 by Rasher
I suppose you are getting the message from these posts that we here are not normal. The fact that you ask indicates you are not normal either. Whatever people say, ignore them, they don't understand. Only we know.
My daughter, now 5, had music from before she was born and started music lessons at 6 months. She loves it, and really has great pitch - she has a harmonica at the moment, as well as a 3/4 scale Strat. Wink(daddys girl).
For calming nights, low level ambient stuff is good, especially the more calming stuff produced for meditation you can find in head shops. Otherwise, the vacuum cleaner and hairdryer worked very well, but you won't want those on 24/7.
She asked a couple of years ago for the Neverland song - peter pan I thought - nah...don't know what you mean..no the neverland song...nah ..haven't got it. Turns out she wanted Enter Sandman by Metallica.(daddys girl Wink).
My son, 11 months, loves jazz.
The fun is about to start.
Never, never, be a parent who plonks on Bob the f***ing Builder and The Wheels on the sodding bus. There is no need for that stuff. Children are intelligent people too.
You won't get sleepless nights. We didn't and if they are content and tired, you won't either. Music is the key - I'm sure of it.
Rock on Daddyo.. Cool
I know people with kids who don't have any music in their lives whatsoever. Their kids are a nightmare.
Posted on: 05 August 2003 by Alex S.
Ours loved Dreadzone, and all the gurgling in Deep Forest went down well, and stayed down.
Posted on: 05 August 2003 by Greg Beatty
...that the Baby Einstein series works very well.

The VCR tapes played through the Naim system sounds quite remarkable, actually. The Baby Einstein versions of songs are instrumented with more upper-midrangy instruments and such - designed "for little ears" as they say.

My 6-month old LOVES music. We dance around to Jazz and Big Band Smile

- GregB and Ian

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Posted on: 05 August 2003 by BigH47
Any loud Metal, Thrash etc played loud, then you won't be able to hear the little wonder.


Howard
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by BLT
Thanks for all of the answers - I've now got plenty to think about. I now need to get a system for the nursery!
I'm not sure about my wife (and especially myself) singing into the womb, neither of us can sing for toffee! My wife used to play the sax a bit, so I will encourage her to take it up again while she is off on Maternity leave.
I'm going to try to avoid the kiddy song compilations for as long as possible - I'll probably come under pressure to buy Bob the Builder CD's eventually, though.
I was brought up on a diet of mainstream Classical (incuding Peter and the Wolf - which I loved), Bing Crosby, Hank Williams and the Shadows. Strange that myself and my brothers are all into Jazz and (Heavy) Rock.
As a rally driver I'm also hoping that the sprog gets to love the sound of car engines, as a foetus it's already travelled in a 1965 Ford Mustang, Aston Martin V8 and a Porsche 911. I just need to find that CD with the sound of the BRM V16 on it!
Thank God we're not normal!
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by domfjbrown
You can definitely remember songs you heard in the womb - I'm sure of this...

Make me smile (come up and see me) by Steve Harley was just out before I was born, and I get a lovely warm feeling every time I hear the instrumental bit - even the first time I played it when I was 16 (I had this cheesy 70s compilation CD, and nearly skipped this one 'cos the intro didn't sound "cool" enough for the college I was in - glad I didn't though!).

I was adopted at 3 months, and my foster mum, then adoptive parents never seemed to play much music when I was growing up. Good thing I went to a blind school really, as the cliche's true - I got to hear TONNES of different music there and it was great. Never looked back...

Music seems to work in any situation if you ask me Smile

I don't plan on ever having kids though (due to the disability) - which is a bummer, as I'd like to test my theory out on the foetus - get some totally obscure track they're never likely to hear for themselves (such as a random trance track or some really oddball contempory classical) and then play it to them when they're 15 or so - see what reaction they give - would be very interesting...

When the music's over turn out the lights
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by Rasher
quote:
Originally posted by BLT:
I'll probably come under pressure to buy Bob the Builder CD's eventually, though.


Not true. That sort of stuff creeps in to fill a vacuum when kids grow up in a non-music loving household. So that's not you then Cool. He/she will have outgrown it before becoming aware of it. Strange but true.
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by Greg Beatty
...then perhaps this:

Oh Baby, the Places You'll Go!: A Book to be Read in Utero

- GregB

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Posted on: 06 August 2003 by Robbie
When my daughters were young I played all sorts of music.The result is that my youngest, a four year old, asks me to play QOTSTA ,or something like that, for her.My other daughter (ten) buys her own cd's now ...She can play them in her own room.
I'm with Rasher on this one.If you're a music lover let your children enjoy it too.

Regards,
Rob.
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by Alex S.
Stop being horrid about BtB. As part of a balanced diet he's fine.
Posted on: 06 August 2003 by JeremyD
quote:
Originally posted by Tom Alves:
...One of the children (aged7/8?) picked up a cd of Prokofiev's "Peter and the Wolf" with squeals of delight only for the mother to scold her by saying "Put that down, you're far to old for that".
That's the sort of thing that makes my blood boil. I remember seeing a woman hitting a young child (presumably her daughter) at a pedestrian crossing for the heinous crime of pressing the button. I was soooo tempted to say something sarcastic to her but I was afraid she'd take it out on the child...

Music for babies? I suggest finding out what the baby likes - try everyhing and anything. No music is too sophisticated for them, and no amount of Builder Bob (or whatever it is) will rot their brains...

--J
Posted on: 07 August 2003 by graeme w
Try "Ambient 1,Music for Airports by Brian Eno. Play it really queitly and try not to fall asleep yourself.

Graeme
Posted on: 07 August 2003 by BLT
Damn, nearly all of my mellow music (and classical) is on vinyl and I recently sold my LP12 Frown
Oh, and Alex, I agree with you about Van Morrison - anyone that does a duet with Sir Cliff loses any respect that I could have had for him. But I can understand why a baby might prefer "Brown Eyed Girl" to Lateralus (which my wife won't allow me to play when she is in the room).
Posted on: 07 August 2003 by Rasher
BLT - Being a sentimental old fool...Go and buy the Brian Eno & Peter Schwalm album Drawn From Life.
Play the track Bloom. It probably won't do anything to you. It's ambient, so its good baby soothing stuff anyway.
When your kid is 3-4 years old, play it again & I guarantee you will want to cry because it's so beautiful to hear childrens voices in this type of music, but it won't affect you till then.
Try it. Really. It is a masterpiece.
God..I'm getting worse....
Posted on: 08 August 2003 by BLT
"Go and buy the Brian Eno & Peter Schwalm album Drawn From Life" Just ordered it - I'll let you know in 3 years if it makes me weep! It will certainly make a change from the noisy stuff that I have been listening to lately.
Also ordered 3 of the "Baby Einstein" classical CD's.
Posted on: 08 August 2003 by Steve Hall
My littl'un loved, and still does Antonio's Live CD. Number of times he fell asleep to that and nothing else!!!
Posted on: 12 August 2003 by Top Cat
quote:
As a rally driver I'm also hoping that the sprog gets to love the sound of car engines, as a foetus it's already travelled in a 1965 Ford Mustang, Aston Martin V8 and a Porsche 911. I just need to find that CD with the sound of the BRM V16 on it!

Do you live in or near Edinburgh by any chance?

Just curious as to your choice of cars...

John

TC '..'
"Girl, you thought he was a man, but he was a Muffin..."
Posted on: 12 August 2003 by BLT
No, I don't live in Edinburgh (Erskine, actually), but I guess that you have recognised the stable of the Edinburgh branch of the Classic Car Club?
Posted on: 12 August 2003 by Top Cat
Indeed. A fine establishment indeed. I take it that you're a member, then? I was, but scraped the front of the S2000 (very very slightly - a bit of brush or heavy foliage on a rather country-like road) and it took a lot of the fun out of it for me. Still, well worth it for a year. The 911 is rather nice, eh?

John

TC '..'
"Girl, you thought he was a man, but he was a Muffin..."
Posted on: 12 August 2003 by BLT
Yep, I'm a member. The 911 is actually a "new" one, the 2.4S that they had was written off a couple of weeks ago (not by a club member). They now have a very nice SC (1981 204bhp model) - unfortunately it had starting problems when I took it out so I didn't get round to doing as many miles as I wanted.
The Aston V8 has been my favourite so far, though Smile
Posted on: 01 September 2003 by dave brubeck
Easy.

"Music for Babies' by Howie B, who used to be an Edinburgh dweller I believe?

It may however encourage the child to experiment with pyschedelic substances.
Posted on: 01 September 2003 by Andrew L. Weekes
BtB and other stuff.

As Alex says, nothing wrong with this as part of a balanced diet - kids should find out for themselves, through plenty of exposure, what they like to listen to.

The only one that I can't stand is Lewis's sudden liking for playing / singing 'Go tell it on the mountain', but then he's also really diggin' the Propellorheads Decksanddrumsandrockandroll at the moment, so he can't be all bad Smile

He has his own CD player, so he can play what he likes, thanks to Richer Sounds' bargain bin.

Tom's story makes me sad though, that's truly criminal.

Andy.
Posted on: 14 November 2003 by BLT
Well, my son made his appearance on the 23rd of October. He seems to like a variety of music ranging from Mozart to the Screaming Trees. The only music that he has shown an active dislike of was Kenny Rodgers on TOTP2, that's my boy! Big Grin