This forum made me stop listening to music

Posted by: Thorsten on 09 October 2002

The subject is somewhat exaggerated. However, there is some truth in it and this is meant to be the last post on this amusing and informative forum. I hope I will be able to withstand the temptation to lurk into this forum.

Let me explain.

When I joined the forum in April I was a very happy Naim-User. I had reached my personal hifi-nirvana. I did not care anymore. I did not give a damn if there is better equipment around (I am sure there is), I had no wish for an upgrade. I switched on the gear and simply used it. I listened to my old favourites and the new stuff that comes in quite regularly. And I had fun. The better the music, the better the enjoyment.

Than I read a few things, wrote a few things. I encountered contributors who seemed to be able to draw conclusions from my system about my approach to music. A mullet=hifi freak versus source first=music lover. I belong obviously to the former category. I do not audition very often, in fact it's been quite a while. (Apart from a small attempt at the Allaes for the wish of more appropiate veneer to my floor). I do not read hifi-mags for a couple of years (anymore, I even used to write reviews for one). I do not change cables. Nothing in my mind was nagging if there was a way to make my system sound better. Til April.

Since then I found myself more often than I ever wanted sitting on my couch and wondering if Naca 5 is worth a try? Can I audition mana somewhere to find out what all the heck is about? Can I afford a cdx? Do I need black snaics? The answer until may was a clean no. Since then I was distracted while the music was playing and concentrated more than is healthy on aspects of prat and timing. I even checked out if my hicap was of better use in my 102 or my 3.5. I was listening more to my system than to my music.

What Naim can do (namely making listening to music enjoyable without fussing about tweaks) it did to me before I joined this place. This heaven of hifi-nirvana was ruined by thinking about upgrades and improvements.

I want to regain my peace of mind. I simply want to enjoy what I have, because this is the only way to enjoy music. (and it already grooves like hell). If something breaks I will be happy to upgrade. Until then I do not want to think about it anymore. In order to achieve this, it is necessary to say no to the drug upgraditis that is slowly entering my brain via the forum.

I want to thank those, who have been patient with me and apologize to those I offended. And of course thanks to naim for my nice system and their willingness to bear with people like me.

The most important upgrade: Forget about your system.
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Thomas K
Slow motion visual, sound one octave lower than normal: Nooooo ... dooooonnn't goooo, Thoooorrsssteeeenn.

I understand where you're coming from. Not that I'm an expert, but here are my suggestions for a remedy which will hopefully make you stay with us:

    - Don't read the Hifi Room anymore. Stay in the Music Room and the Padded Cell (we really need you in the latter).

    - Keep your NACA4 and your grey SNAICS.

    - When you're done with the house, reward yourself with a CDX. It'll match the rest of your system in aesthetic terms and put a big smile on your face. Everyone would agree that your system would then be nicely balanced. After that, you could get a tattoo on your forearm that says "my system is good - don't believe what the others say".


Thomas
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by NB
There is a lot to be said about just sitting back and enjoying the music. Far too many people worry about what their Hi-fi is doing rather than just listening to the music.

I still maintain that the best thing to spend your money on is more cd's or records!!

Grab a beer, sit back and enjoy!!

Regards

NB


cool
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Edo Engel
quote:
There is a lot to be said about just sitting back and enjoying the music. Far too many people worry about what their Hi-fi is doing rather than just listening to the music.
Will anybody out here on the forum admit that he or she is one of those people? I hardly think so, but basically that might just be where we're pushing eachother.

I definitely recognize what Thorsten is trying to say. I'm trying to build up a good HiFi at an affordable price, and turned towards the forum to look for information. I found discussions that took certain pieces of equipment far more seriously than even a dealer ever will. I found people stating things just slightly short of "the 52 is an adequate machine for bugger all money".

I've enjoyed sucking up stories about other people's experiences, it's been really helpful. But OTOH, it also seems like we're taking things too seriously, to the point of building a good HiFi only for it's own sake. I'm sure I'm completely wrong, but sometimes forum discussions make me want to ditch the chrome bumper and buy some integrated from a manufacturer that doesn't provide an excellent forum like this.

Cheers,

Edo
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Matthew T
Thorsten,

I know the feeling. I certainly went through a stage of being overly critical of my hifi but I am currently in a situation where I really can't set it up correctly and I don't have that much time to listen but when I do I am listening to the music and not the hifi. I might upgrade at some point but only because I have spare money (bonus burning a hole in my pocket) and probably only if I can get the system set up correctly.

To most peoples ears your system is probably perfect, so enjoy the music.

cheers
Matthew

Currently listening to Travis on a 6yr old Technics portable through a really knackered pair of Sennheisers MX500, sounding good!
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by herm
you're right, except you're wrong

Excellent post, Thorsten. Your work as style journalist probably makes you see even better that this forum largely serves as a marketing tool, creating a constant cycle of consumer anxiety - upgrade - pride - renewed anxiety.

As I wrote in a post recently: during my holidays I discovered (again) that one of the best ways to enjoy music is in your head, without hifi details interfering (same, of course, applies to a good concert). When we came back I decided to 1) make music more special by spending less time listening 2) spend less time on this forum, and especially on the Hifi Corner. Why would I want to read these relentlessly reduplicating chips posts?

Every upgrade invites another upgrade. I.e. upgrading is just way of going downhill. You're never happy for long.

At a certain point there's two forms of dimishing returns: the sound gets a leetle better if you listen re-a-lly closely (even though many of us make huge claims in these pride-of-ownership posts), while making significant budgetary sacrifices for the hifi habit. The latter usually gets explained away as: you'll still be enjoying the CDSII or the 135s long after you were worrying about scraping the money together, but of course there's always new products and pieces of advice to make sure you're not enjoying it too long.

I guess that's what Thorsten is talking about. However, now that Thorsten has made a public announcement he's not joining the Upgrade Circus for sure, I am hoping he will keep posting those fetish posts of his in the Padded Cell.

Herman
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Alex S.
By all means leave the Hi-Fi Corner but be sure to visit Therapy Niche and Angry Aisle.

Alex
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Larry
Know what you mean Thorsten,
just take a look at the home page,
statistics for topics/posts over the 3 areas!
Larry
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Nuno Baptista
This forun is not neutral.I realized that after some argues about source

MY sistem : Naim Nait 5 amplifier,Nad c 540 cd player,B&W 601 speakers,Naca5
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by herm
That (as ever) is not the point, Nuño.
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Mick P
Nuno

Your indecisiveness and constant re asking the same questions over and over again thus causing loads of us to write back in over and over again, is the greatest reason for us not listening to music.

Regards

Mick
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by jpk73
Thorsten, I am also doing upgrades and upgrades, but still I am listening to HiFi, not the music... I believe that there is a certain point where you cross the border to satisfaction, but I didn't reach it yet... For example I am at the moment purchasing NBLs and a third pair of 135s to replace my active SBLs, and I really hope that I never would feel to upgrade again (e.g. nap500...??)

- Jun
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by J.N.
If you want sensible advice - Find a good Naim dealer.

If you want paranoia - Come here!
Posted on: 09 October 2002 by Rico
some fantastic posts here gang - I especially liked the leading posts from Dutch and Thomas, and from Vuk. The spirit of the forum (despite postings to the contrary) is not dead!

it was this one that had me laughing so hard I couldn't hear Mani's bassline...
quote:
That (as ever) is not the point, Nuño.
cool Well done Herm, you are a wordsmith beyond compare.

Rico - SM/Mullet Audio
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Peter Stockwell
Thorsten,

You're spot on with your analysis and description of what happens if you hang out too long in Hifi Corner. I vowed to stay away when I came back from vacation ... then I went back to work razz . I just inserted a new CD playe in my sistem! and I keep wondering if it's working properly yet confused .

Oh well at least I thought when I first plugged it in that I didn't need anything better!

Peter
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Jay
Thorsten

I felt exactly the same way as you - until I got an 82 big grin

Jay

Yabba, dabba, doooooo
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by herm
quote:
Originally posted by Peter Stockwell:
I just inserted a new CD playe in my sistem! and I keep wondering if it's working properly yet confused .

Peter


You're talking about your CDX aren't you, Peter? What's the problem? Don't you like it, or are there three chimes in your head ringing all the time X - P - S, X - P - S....

Herman
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Shayman
Why leave the forum?

Confine yourself to the Music Room instead. It's just down the corridor. Much more fun and there's no paranoia smile

Jonathan
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Roy T
Thorsten,
if you have "Hi-Fi Corner" on our favourite list in your browser then prehaps you have been stopped from listening to music.
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Philip Pang
Ah... interesting one, this is, and an excellent post.

Thorsten, you've hit it spot on on the nail, and I couldn't agree with you more, and do understand how you feel. What we really need here actually is a break from Hi-Fi, and a re-connection to the music via a re-adjustment of our perspectives.

To address this classic syndrome of "audiophilia nervosa", you might have to be prepared to stay away from it all for a period of time. This is drastic for any audiophile, or even music lover, but it works a very potent charm. I think I read this from one of our more experienced contributors in the old Naim Forum a few years back, and thought I would share this with you, as I found it to be extremely effective in setting the perspectives straight.

You have to trust this and try it: don't listen to any music at home via your system or outside. Don't even look at the system, if you can, as looking almost always dictates wanting to listen to it. The whole idea is to distance yourself completely from the system and music for a period of time, say 3-4 solid weeks, or even longer if possible (which would be better). And then when things do simmer down after that period of time, when you'll have itched to want to listen and still kept it totally in check, you will find that suddenly the music via that very same system takes on a whole new dimension in listenability and musicality. (If the music still doesn't speak to you on its terms after this time, then you will have to extend the time break even longer, for however long it takes, until it does.)

After the break, you will be listening to the music for what it is, because you would have missed having music in your life for this period of time, and not so much for the quality of the sonics. And when that happens, the "audiophilia nervosa" syndrome will die down, at least for a while.

For your information, my time break took almost two long years, but that's another story... cool

I found it totally refreshing to listen to my Naim system after this break, and the music, not the equipment, sounded really good. I was happy again, because the music reached me on its own terms, irrespective of the sonics (that's not to say I will give up the Naims for a mini-compo - just that our ears need a rest from the sonic qualities from time to time.)So whenever I start showing signs of audiophilia nervosa, I take a long hi-fi break, and it works all the time...

The equipment help enhance the music, but they shouldn't have to rob it of its essence.

Good listening, the music's groovin' frightfully more.

Regards

Philip Pang

naimniac for life
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by David Ng
quote:
If the music still doesn't speak to you on its terms after this time, then you will have to extend the time break even longer, for however long it takes, until it does.)


Why deprived yourself of the one passion in your life, music. If the upgrade bug is in you, its in you. Worse still if you have the extra disposable income. My view is to stop thinking about it and just go out and buy it. You will be back to your earlier state of enjoying music again, only now its even more enjoyable because your system is better.

david
Posted on: 10 October 2002 by Hermann
Now you got this little 'Whatif' demon. Pop over to me (Wuppertal) and lets talk about music.

Hermann

BTW my system is Mana'd
Posted on: 11 October 2002 by Philip Pang
>> "My view is to stop thinking about it and just go out and buy it. You will be back to your earlier state of enjoying music again, only now its even more enjoyable because your system is better."

Wouldn't that be nice if you had all the money in the world to get that upgrade as and when you wanted...;)

But the reality is most of us don't usually have those sort of funds to "just go out and buy it" anytime the upgrade itch takes its fancy.

Take a break, have a kit kat.

Good listening, the music's groovin' frightfully more.

Philip

naimniac for life
Posted on: 13 October 2002 by count.d
Christ Thorsten,

If you're going to jump, jump.

Don't announce it, just go.

What do you want, a plead to come back?

Attention seeker.
Posted on: 13 October 2002 by rch
Thorsten,

If you really want to feel free from this fear you shouldn't avoid the Hifi corner.
It's in your mind already.
Fare well!

Christian
Posted on: 13 October 2002 by count.d
Nick,

I think you've missed my point.

If someone wants to go, just go and don't make a grand exit.

Maybe we should have given him a drum roll.