VW Touran v's Ford S-Max

Chaps,

I require the services of all ye car buffs out there.

Due to changing family circumstances, we will be car hunting in the next few months. We have decided between either the VW Touran and the Ford S-Max.

On reading the car reviews, it seems that all are in agreement that overall, the S-Max is the better car due mainly to it's smoother/sporty road handling, larger internal carrying capacity, easier/more practical seating configurations and it being more comfortable for the occupants.

The Touran seems to be better for fuel economy, engine choice and it being slightly cheaper, it also seems to be smaller and lighter.

We test drove a 2010 1.6 TDI Blue Motion Touran on Saturday, but was a little underwhelmed on this engine size, it felt a little sluggish and dry/stiff on the road. So in general, I get the impression that the Ford S-Max will be more comfortable to drive and more pleasant in the cabin whilst also being slightly more spacious, whilst the Touran would be more economical on the road but a little stiff to drive.

We will be a family of 4, two kids under the age of 3, so that requires two child seats and two pushchairs plus luggage as a load.

Any forumites had experience with either or both cars and what are your impressions?

Oh, and please do comment on the entertainment system for good quality listening.