Career changes
Posted by: hungryhalibut on 03 August 2014
My wife's cousin visited recently, and over dinner the conversation moved to her (the cousin's) daughter, who is (or rather, was) a cordon blue pastry chef. But not any more - she is now a dominatrix, with a dungeon in Orpington, of all places. The remuneration is much better, and rather than paying for a cleaner, men now pay her to dress up in maids' outfits and do the cleaning - it's got to be a win - win scenario.
Can anyone beat that (sorry) for a career change?
Do you have a number ?.
Wow, that is a dramatic change.
I was very close friends in college with an artist. He published poetry, sang and played rhythm guitar in a working rock band, and like so many others in the mid-1970's, dealt drugs to help make ends meet. All too predictably, the dealing led to addiction and to some very erratic behavior. Long story short, after several interventions failed, we parted ways.
Fast forward to late-1980's, and I learned that my former friend had left a well-paying job as an investment banker on Wall Street to become CEO for an energy company startup. I called to congratulate him, and we talked for a while. But predictably, it was like talking to a complete stranger.
Not sure what the moral of the story is, or if there even is one. Life is strange and unpredictable, and I guess most of us just try to figure it out a day at a time. I hope your wife's cousin's daughter knows what she's doing, is not taking too many risks, and is already thinking about an exit strategy.
ATB.
Hook
Seriously though,I recently had a log burner fitted and the company sent a sweep to check my chimney.Asi got chatting to the sweep I asked him how he got into the business,expecting him to say he followed in his fathers footsteps.
He replied I needed a career change as I was concerned about the way the NHS was heading.He was a staff nurse for 23 year on the life support unit.
He now has a very successful chimney sweep business called hot rods.
Scott
My wife was a hospital specialist in haematology, working as an NHS doctor for 30 years. She retired about 10 months ago. She now works one day a week on an organic farm planting and harvesting vegetables, a bag of which she brings home as her 'wages'. She's substantially happier than she has ever been.
Bruce
I used to be a hospital doctor in Obstetrics & Gynaecology. I now lecture in Countryside Management at a Land Based College. I thought that my career switch was dramatic enough but the dominatrix story makes mine look pale in comparison!
Do you have a number ?.
Hilarious Scooot, maybe you should have a cold dip in your avatar-pool ?! ATB Peter
Do you have a number ?.
Well, yes.
Wow! Very enterprising. Only the other day my wife was intimating she'd like to have some kind of part time job now the children have fled the nest. I suggested some voluntary work but you've given me another idea.
Nigel
did you negotiate a free dem of your your inlaws new skills
Yikes - she's family. But if you are interested......
Why stay ?. Must be other industry areas where your skills are valued ?
That's really sad. In my industry (mining), I feel that people treat each other overwhelmingly fairly. The people that work in the industry are just regular people and act accordingly. There is no "escalation to evil" as people move to positions of responsibility. Exceptions of course, but thankfully few and far between.
Tony,
Sadly my experience in aviation echoes yours - it's nowhere near the industry it once was...
Anyway while I can't claim anything as radical as the dominatrix I did manage to move from an office based job as an innovation/project manager to airline pilot via Hi-fi reviewer. Some recent medical issues (ankle problem) have forced me to consider some back-up options in case the ankle doesn't come good.
Interestingly one of the guys I learned to fly with was third organist to the Queen, played at the odd royal wedding and lived in quarters at Windsor Castle. He said that the quarters at Windsor Castle were a great asset when (and I quote) 'pulling birds'!!
Jonathan
Tony,
Sadly my experience in aviation echoes yours - it's nowhere near the industry it once was...
Anyway while I can't claim anything as radical as the dominatrix I did manage to move from an office based job as an innovation/project manager to airline pilot via Hi-fi reviewer. Some recent medical issues (ankle problem) have forced me to consider some back-up options in case the ankle doesn't come good.
Interestingly one of the guys I learned to fly with was third organist to the Queen, played at the odd royal wedding and lived in quarters at Windsor Castle. He said that the quarters at Windsor Castle were a great asset when (and I quote) 'pulling birds'!!
Jonathan
Bumped into a collegue of yours a few weeks ago - Matthew Donnellan ?
I actually took his wife/partner for a trial lesson and Matthew came along for the ride in the back. He mentioned that you had been off work with a leg injury. Hope it does get better - and soon.
Cheers
Don
A small world Don and hope she enjoyed the trial lesson - I still miss light aircraft flying and envy you doing it... Actually it's been the year from hell here but thankfully over the past fortnight I have actually felt better than in months so I'm hoping and praying that I will be able to return to flying again this year - I really miss it.
In the meantime I have been keeping busy in a sedentary way and working on a possible back-up plan but I fear that the commercial realities may be difficult: www.jonathangorsephotography.com
Photography and music has kept me sane through some rather difficult and painful weeks!
Thanks for your good wishes, they're much appreciated...
Jonathan