Life Partnerships?

Posted by: u5227470736789439 on 28 November 2006

Dear Friends,

I think one can wonder where one is. The idea of the nuclear family with a bread-winner and a home-maker sounds frightfully old fashioned, now, doesn't it?

In UK at least all too many girls want their cake [cooked for them] and eat it, and I wonder if this is good for any children that come of a mariage? My observation is certainly not.

However, this may seem to put me into that group of neandethals who think that the little lady's place is chained to the sink and cooker. Not quite so I have to say, as I could see that the roles might usefully be reversed if the talents of a good couple so require. Tony Blair, for example should definately be confined to the kitchen sink, while Cherrie earns the crust! However, I do think one of each is crucial.

Given two full time working parents the result is all to often emotionally undernourished children, and a higher proportion of delinquant children. Is it only in UK that we are falling into this trap?

Something to chew on from Fredrik
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by rupert bear
'...but they were f**ked up in their turn,
By fools in old style hats and coats
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one anothers' throats..
...Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.'
P.Larkin (boys only school)
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Rasher
I've found that reading Mick's posts in a Sgt. Wilson voice rather than a Capt. Mainwaring voice puts a different slant on things.
(It's just me trying to fully understand other points of view)).
Carry on.....
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Deane F
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
I've found that reading Mick's posts in a Sgt. Wilson voice rather than a Capt. Mainwaring voice puts a different slant on things.
(It's just me trying to fully understand other points of view)).
Carry on.....


Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Bas V
quote:
Originally posted by Malky:
Children thrive best in a loving, caring and stimulating environment. This does not necessarily imply a situation where dad works and mum is a housewife.


This makes me think of that wonderful song of Kashmir:

"Every home should have a mum in love,
and a daddy in space"

Brilliant.
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Malky
?????????
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by acad tsunami
what Malky said.
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Fisbey
Mushrooms Big Grin Roll Eyes
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by Bas V
Ok, so you don't get it. I think that housewives who love their husband very much don't want them at home all the time. So the best loving situation for a child might just be a loving wife and a hard working man. Just a thought though, no mushrooms Razz
Posted on: 30 November 2006 by acad tsunami
All has been revealed. Thanks bas. Smile