Plagued by Ghosts
Posted by: Rasher on 29 May 2007
When I was born, my parent’s house was haunted. I lived there up until the age of five and the place was fairly badly haunted by the ghost of a small girl that used to play with my sisters toys, which would be found scattered over the house when my parents came home. My father at one point set up some search lights in the garden to catch what was going on, but never caught anything. My mother would be bathing us and would hear my father come home; come in the front door, walk up the stairs, open the bathroom door, but no-one was there and he didn’t come home until much later. My grandmother had problem with the porch door once and it jammed open (!). Everyone tried to close it, but it wouldn’t budge. After leaving it for a while my mother closed it normally. My sister used to wake up screaming practically every night. The local priest did an exorcism on the place and according to my mother it all stopped, but when my parents separated when I was five and we left, my father always claimed that things continued at that old place, but was someone else, a man.
The house I’ve just left was haunted too. I used to feel guilty that my daughter, and later my son, would be in the room that I would never sleep in myself. Over the years we have had lodgers, and my mate Claire used to have that room. She once freaked out because a woman came through the door and stood by her bed. Much later, my wife’s cousin lodged in that room and woke one night to find a woman bending over her. The descriptions of the woman were the same. We had the place “cleansed” but something always remained and there was a funny atmosphere at the top of the stairs. Both of them slept with the light on for the time they stayed there.
We moved house this March. Guess what!
Several times I’ve gone to the door when the doorbell has rung to find no-one there. It’s a decent stretch to the road down the steps and no-one could run off before I saw them. It happened twice last night, once luckily when my daughter was near and she heard it too, because otherwise I’d think I was going crazy. What really is weird is that it doesn’t sound exactly like our doorbell! It’s the same ring, but it’s louder and more shrill.
We hear footsteps upstairs running around, like a small child, but on inspection ours are fast asleep. I didn’t think much of it at first, but now it’s getting strange. I’ve heard a conversation going on upstairs on more than one occasion and talking about it with my wife yesterday, she now confesses that she has been hearing whispering while standing on the landing. We had a couple of friends stay over recently to babysit, and they were quite alarmed at the sound of running on the landing and two adult voices upstairs. When we talked it over I mentioned that it was definitely two voices because they talk over each other, they freaked out because they said that was exactly what they heard too, but hadn’t pinpointed that was what they were hearing.
The children don’t seem to be aware of anything luckily, and to be honest, the house has such a wonderful welcoming atmosphere that we are quite happy to leave things as they are, it isn’t a problem, but it’s weird that these things seem to follow me around. We’ll hear something going on practically every night now. The doorbell is getting to be a pain in the butt though (it only happens to me – no-one else has ever had it).
I guess if it gets much worse we’ll have to do something, but it’s a funny old business. I’ll be there on my own for a week in August, and I must admit, I’m not looking forward to that!
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Chillkram
Rasher
I have to say that I am a sceptic when it comes to ghosts. I live in a house that was built in 1866 and have had absolutely no ghostly experiences whatsoever. Neither have I when I have been in reputedly 'haunted' properties. I wonder if it is a question of 'receptiveness' or suggestibility (not wishing to be patronising as I realise the experiences are real to you and your family/friends). I suppose it is because I am of the 'seeing is believing' persuasion and, as I haven't seen, I don't believe.
By the way, my doorbell also rings itself and I put this down to it being wireless and the battery running low!
Mark
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by JWM
This is a phenomenon of which I have had some experience.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Chris Kelly
Well go on then James! Tell us!
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Chillkram
quote:
Originally posted by Chillkram:
Rasher
and have had absolutely no ghostly experiences whatsoever.
Or maybe I have and I just interpret them differently.
Mark
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Rasher
Maybe Mark, but either way, consider yourself lucky.

What is odd is that I was very afraid at my parents house as a toddler - I remember being scared there, and the feeling at my last house was identified by me, my wife, my sister and a few others, but this place we've just moved to....I feel nothing there! I can't identify a spot where I can feel anything, and I'm usually pretty good at picking these things up. My wife can't either. There is nothing to pick up on. That's weird in itself. But...I've never
seen things before, but I have here - movement out of the corner of my eye, and the back of someone's leg disappearing through a doorway.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by BigH47
Rasher.
If the phenomena exists I'd say it's you that's haunted not the houses.
Something to put in your HIPS. Should prevent any one moving next door to you.
Howard
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Nigel Cavendish
Rasher
You should seek medical help.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Rasher
I have!
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by JWM
quote:
Originally posted by Chris Kelly:
Well go on then James! Tell us!
Sorry, I should have said:
"
Rasher, This is a phenomenon of which I have had some experience.
Send me PM."
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by garyi
Jesus. I thought this place was a rational.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Steve S1
quote:
Jesus. I thought this place was a rational.
Nah, I don't believe that.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Deane F
I have faith that the Forum is rational.
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Chillkram
quote:
Originally posted by garyi:
Jesus. I thought this place was a rational.
Don't you mean Rashernal?!!

Posted on: 29 May 2007 by Mark Dunn
Hi Rasher,
Consider that it may be you that's the 'lightning rod' for these occurrences. I know a couple of people that experience the same things and have once or twice seen/felt/heard it myself when in their presence.
Don't sweat it. No harm, no foul.
Best Regards,
Mark Dunn
Posted on: 29 May 2007 by garyi
Perhaps you could find someone to relieve you of money Rasher?
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Rasher
I can't believe you are all so sceptical,

which is quite funny really if something like this is irrational, but gathering around to listen to a bit of interconnect wire costing £500 and discussing it endlessly on an internet forum is perfectly normal. Stones and glasshouses methinks!
Now, what is that about finding someone to relive me of my money Gary?

It's a laugh isn't it, eh?!

I know you think it's nuts, but it's true. I'm not worried about it and it isn't bothering any of us, but it's just something that's happening and it's fascinating.
Maybe it's the places I buy:
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Rockingdoc
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
but it’s weird that these things seem to follow me around.!
Oh really?
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Fraser Hadden
Rasher,
There is an American aphorism applied to people with multiple failed relationships to the effect that the only constant factor, and hence the causative factor, is the person themselves. I think, in the nicest way, that this applies to you in respect of your multiple ghostly experiences.
Most of our houses will be built on ground that has been the final resting place of someone at some point in history, yet few people are troubled by the 'ghosts' of these.
Further, why do claimed ghosts so seldom derive from distant history? There is rather a lot of distant history. Maybe 'ghosts' themselves have a finite lifespan (ghost-span?), or its other-wordly equivalent, or maybe they just get bored with evoking such limited response from the living.
Fraser
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Deane F
While the remark was made about flying saucers, it seems strangely relevant to this discussion...
"I think that it is much more likely that the reports of flying saucers are the results of the known irrational characteristics of terrestrial intelligence than of the unknown rational efforts of extra-terrestrial intelligence."
— Richard Feynman
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Rasher
I can't really argue with that, but rememeber that it isn't just me.
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by domfjbrown
Do you have any pets, Rasher? Read on for why I ask...
My old housemates neglected to tell me, before I moved in that is!, that the place we were renting in Reading was haunted.
As you describe, one or other of us would see odd movements in the shadows that shouldn't be there, and my housemates' (a couple who had the main bedroom) light switch used to turn on physically by itself.
When these events were happening, their cat would mewl at the walls (a really spooky sound that I've not heard a cat make before or since!). There was never a nasty cold draught or a feeling of evil, but it was fairly freaky.
The worst time was when my female housemate came bolting down the stairs one evening. She was totally freaked out... After brushing her teeth, she was walking down the corridor from the bathroom to the bedroom. The mirror above the bathroom sink faced a picture on the wall at the end of the corridor. As she was walking away, she saw a flicker in the picture frame, and she whirled round to catch a reflection of someone in the bathroom mirror - someone who wasn't there...
The weirdest thing of the lot was that there was an old weathered stone set into the wall at the end of the garden. There was once writing on it, but it was weathered away. We're wandering whether someone was buried in the garden or something.
So yeah, back on topic, if you have any pets, watch them; if they act weird when you see other manifestations, it's likely they're picking up on someting that's really going on! Cats and dogs sre reknowned for ESP-type senses and things like that...
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Rasher
Sadly our cat died two weeks after moving in and we don't have any pets now.
We found him dead, hair standing on end and he had turned white...no, really he just had a tumor. He used to sleep in my son's room at the old place in the room where the woman had been seen twice. He seemed to especially like it there. He's buried in the graveyard..I mean, garden.
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by vln
Rasher have you had a look at this:
http://www.skepdic.com/http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occams_razorhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demon_haunted_worldOh and "exorcising the ghost"? The idea here is to tell a priest to tell the Invisible Sky Fairy Who Rules The Universe And Reads Everybody's Thoughts to tell the ghost to f*ck off out of it and leave those poor people alone?
And why is it always the brits that come up with such stories? I have never heard a single story from a friend/friend of a friend /friend of a friend of a friend etc. about a haunted house in switzerland and/or germany (where I live now).
Maybe something to do with the food? Maybe if you brits would eat a bit healthier, you wouldn't be seeing things?

Samuel.
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by acad tsunami
quote:
Originally posted by vln:
And why is it always the brits that come up with such stories? I have never heard a single story from a friend/friend of a friend /friend of a friend of a friend etc. about a haunted house in switzerland and/or germany (where I live now).
When someone in Switzerland or Germany dies they are glad to f*ck off for good but Britain is such a great place many of us like to hang around a bit after dying. Its very simple really.

Posted on: 30 May 2007 by u5227470736789439
quote:
Originally posted by vln:
[...].
And why is it always the brits that come up with such stories? I have never heard a single story from a friend, ... about a haunted house in Switzerland and/or Germany (where I live now).
Maybe something to do with the food? Maybe if you brits would eat a bit healthier, you wouldn't be seeing things?
Samuel.
Brits make good gramophones though... Fredrik