Plagued by Ghosts
Posted by: Rasher on 29 May 2007
When I was born, my parent’s house was haunted. I lived there up until the age of five and the place was fairly badly haunted by the ghost of a small girl that used to play with my sisters toys, which would be found scattered over the house when my parents came home. My father at one point set up some search lights in the garden to catch what was going on, but never caught anything. My mother would be bathing us and would hear my father come home; come in the front door, walk up the stairs, open the bathroom door, but no-one was there and he didn’t come home until much later. My grandmother had problem with the porch door once and it jammed open (!). Everyone tried to close it, but it wouldn’t budge. After leaving it for a while my mother closed it normally. My sister used to wake up screaming practically every night. The local priest did an exorcism on the place and according to my mother it all stopped, but when my parents separated when I was five and we left, my father always claimed that things continued at that old place, but was someone else, a man.
The house I’ve just left was haunted too. I used to feel guilty that my daughter, and later my son, would be in the room that I would never sleep in myself. Over the years we have had lodgers, and my mate Claire used to have that room. She once freaked out because a woman came through the door and stood by her bed. Much later, my wife’s cousin lodged in that room and woke one night to find a woman bending over her. The descriptions of the woman were the same. We had the place “cleansed” but something always remained and there was a funny atmosphere at the top of the stairs. Both of them slept with the light on for the time they stayed there.
We moved house this March. Guess what!
Several times I’ve gone to the door when the doorbell has rung to find no-one there. It’s a decent stretch to the road down the steps and no-one could run off before I saw them. It happened twice last night, once luckily when my daughter was near and she heard it too, because otherwise I’d think I was going crazy. What really is weird is that it doesn’t sound exactly like our doorbell! It’s the same ring, but it’s louder and more shrill.
We hear footsteps upstairs running around, like a small child, but on inspection ours are fast asleep. I didn’t think much of it at first, but now it’s getting strange. I’ve heard a conversation going on upstairs on more than one occasion and talking about it with my wife yesterday, she now confesses that she has been hearing whispering while standing on the landing. We had a couple of friends stay over recently to babysit, and they were quite alarmed at the sound of running on the landing and two adult voices upstairs. When we talked it over I mentioned that it was definitely two voices because they talk over each other, they freaked out because they said that was exactly what they heard too, but hadn’t pinpointed that was what they were hearing.
The children don’t seem to be aware of anything luckily, and to be honest, the house has such a wonderful welcoming atmosphere that we are quite happy to leave things as they are, it isn’t a problem, but it’s weird that these things seem to follow me around. We’ll hear something going on practically every night now. The doorbell is getting to be a pain in the butt though (it only happens to me – no-one else has ever had it).
I guess if it gets much worse we’ll have to do something, but it’s a funny old business. I’ll be there on my own for a week in August, and I must admit, I’m not looking forward to that!
Posted on: 30 May 2007 by Tarquin Maynard - Portly
I clearly recall seeing what I took to be an angel.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rasher
Thanks vln. I take your comments in the spirit with which they were intended.
Mike, SShhh....you'll get branded a loony, like me.
Something has happened which I DO NOT LIKE!
My daughter came downstairs white as a sheet. She was playing her music in her bedroom and singing along with it, and someone hissed directly in her ear to "shut up". There was no-one else in the room, of course. It has scared the crap out of her. She obviously isn't aware of the other things going on, we wouldn't talk about it in front of the children.
If that happens again, it's going to have to get another place to live. That's made me angry.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Bob McC
quote:
it's going to have to get another place to live.
How you going to do that then?
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by vln
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
Thanks vln. I take your comments in the spirit with which they were intended.
Dear Rasher,
Yes it was meant in good/positive spirit (no pun intended).
I have spent the last 10 years of my life in a scientific environment so these things are hard if not impossible for me to swallow.
I do however accept the fact that for you this seems to be quite real. Have you read about the things that might cause these sightings, such as (mild) carbonmonoxide poisoning and/or infra sonic sounds?
Working in computational neuroscience, I know a few things about the brain and how amazing it works when it comes to construct what we think of as reality. The brain gets very incomplete information from its senses and does a lot of extra work to fill in the blanks, something which can easily be tested with optical illusions etc., so obviously sometimes this process does not work as it is intended to.
There maybe people who are more susceptible to this than others which would explain why "it follows you around" (no point in moving house then, is there?) and if it is a hereditary trait, it would explain why your daughter sees/hears these things as well.
Also once you start to think about these things, I would assume that every new thing that happens will automatically be seen in the context of something supernatural, without alternatives being considered.
I live in an old building and a couple of weeks ago I heard some footsteps of which I was sure they where coming from the attic above me, as my nextdoor neighbour and my neighbour below me was away, but the door to the attic was locked. I am sure that there is/was some explanation for this but if I already had the mindset that this is because of ghosts, then I would surely have seen this as yet another supernatural occurrence.
So, to close, a quote from the LP12 set up manual:
SANITY MUST PREVAIL!
and in a bit more lighthearted way, have you thought about buying one of these:
http://www.gryphon-audio.dk/default2.asp(Go to products, select Exorcist. If the problem persists, try the Black Exorcist)

Samuel.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Deane F
quote:
Originally posted by vln:
the Invisible Sky Fairy Who Rules The Universe
He might be invisible, but once, on acid, I clearly recall seeing what I took to be the Sky Fairy's feather boa...
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rasher
My brother-in-law once when on acid, was followed across the whole of Brighton by a giant banana.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rasher
quote:
Originally posted by bob mccluckie:
quote:
it's going to have to get another place to live.
How you going to do that then?
Easy. Just tell it. I'm not afraid of this stuff and if it wants to hang around, then that's fine, but it's our house now and we'll do what we damn well like there. It can't do anything but make stupid noises. If it exists, then it'll know that I will move it on if it outstays its welcome. Simple.
I know it sounds ridiculous, and I know that I'd be the first to take the mickey if it was someone else & I didn't believe it, so you can say what you want. I know I can be a plonker sometimes, but I wouldn't have posted this if I wasn't prepared for the response.

I just thought it was fairly interesting, and probably more fun than just another Hi-Line thread.

I swear, it really is happening.

If it touches my hi-fi, it's dead!
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by acad tsunami
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
If that happens again, it's going to have to get another place to live. That's made me angry.
Wot, your daughter?
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Nigel Cavendish
Rasher
If this is anything but a wind-up, it would seem you, and some of your family are paranoid schizophrenic...
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by acad tsunami
Nigel,
I think your remark is totally uncalled for. Rasher is a decent, well meaning chap and one of the most genuine and sincere people on this ere forum imo.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rockingdoc
My experiences with LSD (in the distant past) have demonstrated how totally "real" halucinations can appear, and there can be many other triggers for these apart from psychotropic drugs. I was once followed about by Piglet from Winnie the Pooh accompanied by the Scotland Rugby team, and would have been willing to swear that they were really there (but I suspect they weren't).
Obviously patients often describe "real" seeming hallucinations too.
Not saying that your ghosts are hallucinations, just that the suitably prepared mind is a powerful thing.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rasher
I knew it! You're all in this together and I'm being set-up!

Nigel, try to be a little less blinkered, eh?

I do see your point though.
quote:
I was once followed about by Piglet from Winnie the Pooh accompanied by the Scotland Rugby team,

The imagination sure is a powerful thing. How on earth did you dream up
that combination.
Thanks Acad
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by acad tsunami
quote:
Originally posted by Rockingdoc:
I was once followed about by Piglet from Winnie the Pooh
I was stalked by a pig for over two years. Eventually I got a court injunction and rarely saw her again!

Posted on: 31 May 2007 by acad tsunami
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:

The imagination sure is a powerful thing. How on earth did you dream up
that combination.
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The first harks back to childhood whilst the second is just wishful thinking maybe?

Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Rockingdoc
They were wearing the same hooped strip
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Chillkram
quote:
Originally posted by acad tsunami:
Rasher is a decent, well meaning chap and one of the most genuine and sincere people on this ere forum imo.
Agreed, Rasher's a top bloke!
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by MichaelC
Better ghosts than a plague of rats I would say.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Bob McC
some of the nicest people I know are deranged.
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Andrew Randle
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
Something has happened which I DO NOT LIKE!
My daughter came downstairs white as a sheet. She was playing her music in her bedroom and singing along with it, and someone hissed directly in her ear to "shut up". There was no-one else in the room, of course. It has scared the crap out of her. She obviously isn't aware of the other things going on, we wouldn't talk about it in front of the children.
If that happens again, it's going to have to get another place to live. That's made me angry.
Sounds like WAR! Sex Pistols at 11am on the volume control through the SBLs, while singing your best "Jonny Rotten"?
BTW I also have a ghost experience in my youth, but it's a bit late to recount.
Andrew
Posted on: 31 May 2007 by Phil Cork
quote:
Originally posted by Rasher:
I knew it! You're all in this together and I'm being set-up!

Nigel, try to be a little less blinkered, eh?

I do see your point though.
quote:
I was once followed about by Piglet from Winnie the Pooh accompanied by the Scotland Rugby team,

The imagination sure is a powerful thing. How on earth did you dream up
that combination.
Thanks Acad
It's actually a little known fact that Piglet used to play for the Scottish under 5 (feet) team...
Phil
Posted on: 01 June 2007 by Rasher
I had no idea he was a Scot, I assumed he was from Sussex.
Posted on: 01 June 2007 by Rasher
quote:
Sounds like WAR! Sex Pistols at 11am on the volume control through the SBLs, while singing your best "Jonny Rotten"?
Nah....I was never really a punk...I'm gonna do Led Zep..
Presence!
Posted on: 01 June 2007 by Nigel Cavendish
Led Zep - Stairway to Heaven presumably?
Posted on: 01 June 2007 by Steve O
Well Rasher, I think it's time you got a bit of support.
I've "seen" or felt the presence of ghosts on a number of occasions.
I remember my Grandad dying on my 9th birthday. In the weeks that followed I told my parents that my Grandad used to come visit me at night. This was greeted with an "of course he does love" response. Shortly afterwards my Mum began to smell cigarette smoke in the toilet even though nobody in the house smoked. My Grandad continued to visit me, sitting in a chair opposite my bed. I don't recall him ever speaking to me but I remember him sitting smiling at me. On a few occasions, unbeknown to me at the time my Mum put a cushion on the chair in my room. I would be asked in the morning did Grandad come to see you last night. Mostly I answered "No", but on the occasions I answered "Yes" the cushion had been sat on. I was taken more seriously after that. Years later my Mum saw him walk past the kitchen window.
On another occasion I was tiling my Mums bathroom. I came downstairs to see if she was OK (she had cancer at the time) and I made her a cuppa. As we had the cuppa we both heard footsteps upstairs.
Another time my Mum, Dad and I all witnessed the light fitting (quite a heavy thing with three arms radiating out from a centre point, and suspended from the ceiling on a chain) begin to swing of its own volition.
After losing my Mum to cancer I have smelled her perfume in a room on occasion and have also felt the sensation of someone sitting on my bed many times.
Recently I have had my Dad move in with me and we have both seen a figure walk past both of our bedrooms open doorways.
There are more incidents but I don't think they need to be told. You will either believe or disbelieve from what I have written here.
Thankfully I have never felt threatened in any way. I feel for Rasher and his family if the disturbances in his house are becoming malevolent.
Regards,
Steve O.
Posted on: 01 June 2007 by Nigel Cavendish
I don't disbelieve what you say you feel/hear but ghosts? I don't think so.