Farewell ..........(for now)

Posted by: Pedro on 04 August 2012

I've been a Naim owner for nearly 25 years. Until very recently I would never have imagined being without my Naim based system, having started with a 62/90 many years ago and moved slowly up the Naim ladder. However, two heart attacks can change priorities somewhat. I'm grateful that I'm here to reflect on what happended to me and to have the opportunity to make some life changing decisions. Some aren't so fortunate.

 

In order to implement some of those decisions and help better secure the future for my wife and young children, I decided to part with my entire system. The task is now complete. I have to admit I wasn't sure I could do it. Parting with my wonderful SL2s and the LP12 was especially tough for me. 

 

I plan to start over again at some appropriate point in the future and look forward to getting on that first rung of the ladder with some anticipation.

 

I had assumed I'd continue my almost daily ritual of checking in on Hi Fi Corner, occasionally passing comment; but I'm finding it difficult to read about so many wonderful things going on in the world of Naim without being constantly reminded I'm no longer a part of all that's happening.

 

There are many wonderful people who frequent this forum. I've even met one or two and would consider them friends. So it's farewell for now. I sincerely hope I'll return one day if my plan prevails. Thanks for your wisdom and friendship. 

 

Pete

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by ryder.
Some decisions have to be made, and I can understand that priorities will change as life progresses, be it from personal well-being or health, work, relocation or a change in listening patterns etc. Obviously you have chosen the best solution for your family which is the right thing to do.
 
 
Originally Posted by Pedro:
I plan to start over again at some appropriate point in the future and look forward to getting on that first rung of the ladder with some anticipation.

 

 

I believe music will always be the part of someone who has developed a love and passion for music, music first and foremost. When I am left without a hifi system on a temporary basis, I still gravitate to my headphones although I do not like the feeling of headphones on my head and find them uncomfortable. You don't need expensive kit to be able to enjoy music. If you are a music lover, a cheap system will do it for you, even a radio - as long as there is music playing.

 

Good luck in your future undertakings and be well soon.

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by rackkit

Sorry to hear about that Pete. Best of luck and hoping you can look forward to another 25 years of music when the time is right for you and your family.

 

All the best.

 

Rack.

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by Gale 401

Pete,


I did wonder a few months ago when i saw your LP12 up for sale.

Hope you get a good price for everything.

Regards,

Stu.

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by Hook

Have always enjoyed reading your posts Pete!  You will be missed, but I understand and respect your decision.

 

While you are away, I hope that you find some way to keep music in your life -- a radio, an iPod with earbuds, something.  Music can be a great source of both physical and emotional healing!  Maybe someday you might even feel like posting in the music room?  if so, you will always be welcome.

 

Thanks for all the great stories and advice over the last few years.

 

Best of luck with your recovery!

 

Hook 

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by DrMark

"Music can be a great source of both physical and emotional healing!"

 

+1 - you may be out of the hi-fi game, but use music for its full potential for your well being.

 

“Information is not knowledge.
Knowledge is not wisdom.
Wisdom is not truth.
Truth is not beauty.
Beauty is not love.
Love is not music.
Music is THE BEST.”
Frank Zappa

 

Good luck to you...

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by MangoMonkey

A 5i-2 or a UnitiQute is all you'll ever need. Just ask George.

Posted on: 04 August 2012 by pjl2

Pete,

 

I am so sorry to hear of your health problems. Having been through a difficult time health wise for the past nine months with my wife I know that this can be devastating for all concerned.

 

Rest assured that you have got your priorities absolutely right - no question of that. I had to dispose of my beloved Naim set-up a few years back due to financial troubles. Like you it was a difficult move to make, and yet an easy decision to make because it was so obviously the right one. Naim had been a part of my life for around twenty-five years as a way to enjoying music, and being without it seems odd.

 

But there is life without Naim. Music, not equipment, is the priority. I enjoy my music now on a little Denon micro-system with Eclipse speakers. Music is still very much here, even if Naim is not.

 

One day I hope to return to Naim, as you do. No doubt in the fullness of time it will happen for both of us. In the meantime do not despair - you still have music.

 

And yes, you certainly don't need a mega-bucks set-up to benefit from that Naim magic. A simple Nait 5i-2 or UQ has it in shed-loads!

 

Best,

 

Peter

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Alco

Hello Pete,

 

That's a sad story and it's always a shame to see a regular forummember go.

I can only agree with Mangomonkey, that is doesn't have to cost a fortune to enjoy the involving Naim sound.(any s/h or ex-demo Nait with a decent source or a UnitiQute could/should/would do fine)

 

I wish you all the best!

 

regards,

Alco

 

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Rui Marques

Peter,

 

Sad news … but you are still alive to enjoy life and your family, much more important than the ownership of a super hi-fi system (even a Naim one).  

 

I always liked your posts and the similar passion for SL2s.

 

It is perfectly possible to enjoy music without a super Naim system (less expectations and more focus on music): a second hand NAIT a pair of small speakers and an honest source is all that is needed.

 

Good luck

Rui

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Julian H

Dear Peter

 

I was very disturbed when I heard of your recent poor health. That you sold something that gave you some pleasure must have been a challenging decision too. I look forward to the time when you can buy some Naim again [even a lovely UQ/n-Sats system] and you feel comfortable to be back reading this forum amongst friends!

 

Best wishes, Julian

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by J.N.

Sorry to hear of your troubles Pete. Life changing events certainly put the ownership and chat about Hi-Fi systems into perspective.

 

Best wishes for your life to return to a point where most of us here are lucky enough to concern ourselves with the trivia of life.

 

John.

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Elbow
I'm so sorry to hear about your health Peter. Best of luck with everything. I'll miss your contributions round here.
Posted on: 05 August 2012 by analogmusic

very sorry to hear about this.


music can still be enjoyed on a modest system, and I cannot imagine a day gone without music.

 

Not everyone in the world has the opportunity of owning a Naim, but billions of people still enjoy music everyday.

 

I hope to see you back here soon.

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Engelbert

Hi Pete,

 

Wishing you a speedy return to good health. 

 

I'll certainly miss your posts, because they've always been well-considered and enlightening.

 

If you decide to return in the future, you'll be most welcome!

 

Engelbert

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by FangfossFlyer

All the best to you and yours,

 

Richard

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by George Fredrik

Best wishes for a good recovery, and a long and happy life.

 

ATB from George

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Chris Dolan

Very best wishes Pete.

 

Come back soon please as you will be missed.

 

Chris

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Steve J

Speedy recovery Pete. I hope you're able to resume the Naim trail soon.

 

ATB

 

Steve

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Cymbiosis

May I add my very best wishes to all those who have posted above Peter. 

 

Get well and stay well. 

 

Hang on to all your LPs if you can, as I’m sure you’ll be playing them again.

 

Best regards,

 

Peter

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Pedro
My sincere thanks to everyone who has taken the time to post. TBH it has been a humbling experience reading them all and has certainly helped me in retaining a healthy perspective on recent events.
 
Originally Posted by Cymbiosis:

May I add my very best wishes to all those who have posted above Peter. 

 

Get well and stay well. 

 

Hang on to all your LPs if you can, as I’m sure you’ll be playing them again.

 

Best regards,

 

Peter

You're quite right Peter, I've held on to my album and CD collection (about a thousand albums and a similar number of CDs) as I'm more determined than ever to make a return. I'm able to play my CDs in the meantime, so still have music playing an important part of in my life.

 

I had/have a lot of plans in the pipeline to do more once I have the staying power and energy back. I can at least drive again and get about more. Just waiting to hear whether I need to return for further 'work' on the ole ticker.

 

Pete

 

 

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by Justin9960

Best wishes to you in the future, hope things work out for you.

Posted on: 05 August 2012 by 911gt3r

Hi Pete.

I can't say your descision came as a surprise from telephone conversations we have had following your heart attack. But the SL2s Pete, was that really neccesary.................?  From your stay here I know how passionately we both cherish that particular design/sound. Taking my system performance out of the equation at the SL2-gathering here, it was a pleasure spending time with you and generally meeting people on this Forum.

People above have touched on the healing/destressing properties we all experience from listening to music and I greatly sympathize with JulianH's view, that the descision you came to, must have been a hard one to implement. Your motive for selling is very honourable and maybe even a natural consequence of your medical condition, and we have touched on this before and yes your route to recovery might be slower than you like it to be, but hang on to the fact that you deserve to stay around, look at cause-effect to change the out look to the future, but first and foremost , STAY POSITIVE ! Life throws up all kinds of shit at times and I would like to think I am talking from experience here. It took me from the summer of 2006 till october last year, 4 years after my divorce, to rediscover my joy of my own system, when I signed up as a forum member here. Don't take that long, you have got your near family support and the forum needs your input always full of integrity and consideration.

Pete , if you feel you have to go away for a while, fair enough, but expect to come down, when I do my next event some time this autumn ( maybe a full active DR-day, whatever) and you have got my phone number !   I wish you all the best, speak soon Peter.

Posted on: 06 August 2012 by mista h

Hello Pedro

I dont know you,but feel for you. A good friend of mine lives just around the corner from 401(stu) and this year alone has had 5 Major heart operations,but he is still with us. Went to visit him on several occasions at St Thomases Hospital in London. With op number 4 they left the wound open,Yes Open. Their was what looked like a piece of made to measure sponge stuffed in the gap with drainage tubes coming out of the sponge.

He has been told to avoid all forms of stress which i assume applies to you also.

Mista h

Posted on: 06 August 2012 by winkyincanada

Best of luck with it all. Get well soon.

 

Winky.

Posted on: 06 August 2012 by Frank Abela

Pete, we only met the once at Peter's bash but I'm shocked at this news. Here's hoping all is well with the you from now on. FWIW, my dad was older than you when he had his triple bypass some 20 years ago and is still shuffling along, and mum was older than him when she had her quadruple and has more energy than I do! These heart rebores really do work, but the recovery can be quite a while.

 

Best wishes for the future!

 

Regards,
Frank.
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