Why do people always exaggerate when they tell stories?

Posted by: Consciousmess on 01 August 2016

I don't know about you, but whenever someone tells me a story I decrease the 'values' in my head.

For example... "I was up all night preparing for the interview"; "The journey took 6 hours"...

I overheard people on the train and have a theory why everyone does it.  Because the 'listener' wasn't there, the narrator feels they need to compensate.

(A very frustrating phenomenon in human nature.)

What do you reckon to my theory?

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by GraemeH

I think your title is in itself is a fine example of your observation.

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Posted on: 01 August 2016 by dave marshall

I've said the same thing a million times. 

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by Erich

Not my case. But let me tell you that I'm very fortunate to write here, because here is so cold that if I had to speak we would have to fry the words to ear them.

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by DrMark

Well I happen to like hyperbole more than anything...

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by Bert Schurink

The more interesting, the more juicy, the more unexpected, the more perfect.... It's a social expectation - unfortunately.

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by joerand

I absolutely positively never ever exaggerate.

Posted on: 01 August 2016 by Bob the Builder

If you have been to Tenerife then I have been to Elevenerife ; )

Posted on: 02 August 2016 by Gavin B

And no-one's even mentioned 'literally'!!

Posted on: 02 August 2016 by gaboki

Or 'up and down the country' - if you are a politician

Posted on: 02 August 2016 by Romi

When people say 'its only 5 minutes down the road' then I automatically add 5 minutes more (at least) so its 10 minutes or more down the road in reality - this I just accept - part of strange human nature - it happens

'Embellishing stories'  Every one wants to be noticed, found interesting, one gets this all the time especially in Media, who wants the plain facts, the grey truth when an exciting story of an interview of a celebrity fulfills the expectations of all the modern age viewers who might switch off the tv to play a game on mobile within a split second.

However there is one part that grates on me is when 'embellishment' goes too far to become a lie and therefore gives a different perception on the story, can also have devastating effect  to the victim... now we are entering to the world of News, Facebook, Twitter ..litigation..etc

Posted on: 06 August 2016 by Skip

You should post this on Google Quora.    You will get a ton of responses from experts.  They seem to love thought questions like this.