I was a bit feisty, some explanation

Posted by: The Strat (Fender) on 11 April 2018

Guys,

Looking back at one of my posts the other day I realised I was somewhat feisty.  Nothing wrong with that in itself but I recognise that my tone was somewhat out of character.  So an explanation.  

Sadly last month my wife Margaret of 35 wonderful years passed away after a long brave battle with peritoneal cancer.   Although in reality not a surprise it is of course hard to rationalise.    

However, in getting through the ordeal I have received unstinting moral support from our 2 fantastic daughters, Natasha and Alison, and other close family and friends.   We had almost 80 people in attendance ar her funeral including Nigel and Karen (the Polarbears) and JonR from this forum, and appropriately featured some fantastic and poignant music in accord with Margaret’s request.  We also raised a lot of money for the amazing Macmillan organisation. 

We now move on to the next chapter however tough that might be. 

Best regards,

Lindsay

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by Hook

My sincere condolences Lindsay. Glad to hear you have the support of family and friends. I hope that each passing day gets just a little easier for you and your daughters.

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by Clemenza

My condolences Lindsay. Be as feisty as you need to : )

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by TOBYJUG

Stay strong and true.

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by rodwsmith

Many condolences.

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by Tabby cat

Such sad news - feel for you - Try to stay strong as a family

Posted on: 11 April 2018 by ChrisH

Sorry to hear this Strat, my thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Posted on: 12 April 2018 by thebigfredc

Lindsay

No need to worry about being occasionally grumpy on the forum - some folks around here are in a permanent strop - but it can be a good place to express your thoughts with like-minded people, even if they are only cyber friends, at difficult times. There are lots of us who appreciate your considered contributions.

Ray

Posted on: 12 April 2018 by JamieWednesday

My condolences, thank heavens for your family and friends support.

Posted on: 12 April 2018 by The Strat (Fender)

Simply - thank you guys. 

Regards,

Lindsay

Posted on: 12 April 2018 by Massimo Bertola

Lindsay,

I am sorry if my question sounds silly or out of place, but my English is not always good enough. Was Margaret 35 years old or was she your wife for 35 years? Anyway, I couldn't say what would be worse.

My sympathy,

Max

 

Posted on: 13 April 2018 by GTB-Buckaroo

My condolences to you. I enjoy reading your posts [probably more than you enjoy reading mine].

Keep well, enjoy your family and put a piece of music on that you both enjoyed when times get a little tough.

Doug.

Posted on: 13 April 2018 by Bruce Woodhouse

Best wishes

You are amongst friends here I think that is clear.

I have some understanding of your situation both professionally and personally. Music is, and has always been, a part of my emotional landscape when times have been good as well as bad. I hope it is the same for you.

Bruce

Posted on: 13 April 2018 by The Strat (Fender)
Max_B posted:

Lindsay,

I am sorry if my question sounds silly or out of place, but my English is not always good enough. Was Margaret 35 years old or was she your wife for 35 years? Anyway, I couldn't say what would be worse.

My sympathy,

Max

 

Married 35 years Max.  Some amazing memories.  

Thank you.  

Lindsay

Posted on: 13 April 2018 by hungryhalibut

Thirty five years is a very long time, and those memories of a long life together will I’m sure be a huge comfort to you as you move forward, difficult as it no doubt is.

I wish you all the very best. 

Posted on: 16 April 2018 by Gianluigi Mazzorana

My mother and my father have been together for 61 years. When she left he followed. Hard to write and  hard to read but you really have to face yourself and keep standing. I hope you'll get the way!

Posted on: 16 April 2018 by Sloop John B

Very very sorry to hear about your sad loss. 

 

John. 

Posted on: 16 April 2018 by PaulM160

Just to add my condolences Lindsay, appreciating that this must be such a tough time for you. My best wishes. 

Posted on: 16 April 2018 by ALANP

Apologies for late post Lindsay, deepest sympathy

Alan

Posted on: 17 April 2018 by The Strat (Fender)

Once again - thank you guys.  

Posted on: 17 April 2018 by Nick Lees

Apologies Lindsay, just seen this. 

Mere words can’t console...I think it’s everyone’s greatest dread. We’re celebrating 46 years soon and I can’t imagine life without my wife.

In modern parlance though, you’ll always carry a virtual presence of her with you. Never ever forgotten.

Posted on: 17 April 2018 by Dave J

Lindsay, that’s awful, I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t begin to imagine what you must be going through - I can only offer you my support and sincere best wishes. 

Dave

Posted on: 19 April 2018 by Stevee_S

I have only just seen this posting of yours Lindsay, adding my condolences to all the others above and ahead of me my thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family at this most difficult time for you all. 

Posted on: 22 April 2018 by northpole

Lindsay

Very sorry to learn of your terribly sad news and wishing you every strength during what must be a massively testing period for you and your nearest.

Peter